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Nobody really prepares you for how dramatic postpartum hair shedding can feel until it actually starts happening.
One day your hair feels normal, then suddenly there’s hair everywhere — in the shower, in your brush, around your edges, on the floor, constantly.
This is the simple version of what’s actually happening postpartum, what can make it worse, and what helped me focus more on protecting my hair instead of panicking.
Why postpartum hair loss happens
During pregnancy, higher oestrogen levels keep more hairs in the growth phase for longer than usual.
After birth, hormone levels drop quickly, so a lot of those hairs shed around the same time instead of gradually. That’s why postpartum hair loss can suddenly feel intense even if your hair felt thicker during pregnancy.
Most people notice it around 2–4 months postpartum, especially around the hairline, temples, edges, or crown.
If you’re also dealing with postpartum recovery generally feeling harder than expected, you might also like my guide: Postpartum Kit because a lot of postpartum struggles seem to happen all at once.
Things that can make it worse
A lot of postpartum shedding is hormonal and temporary, but certain habits can make fragile hair struggle even more.
Tight styles
Heavy slick backs, tight ponytails, braids, or extensions can put extra stress on already fragile hairlines.
Too much heat
Frequent heat styling can make weak postpartum hair feel thinner and more brittle over time.
Heavy product layering
Too many gels, oils, edge controls, and styling products can make fragile hair harder to manage gently.
Rough detangling
Postpartum hair usually responds better to slower, gentler handling rather than aggressive brushing or rushing wash day.I also noticed postpartum hair felt harder mentally when I already felt overstimulated or exhausted.
What helps: Products I actually used
K18 Leave-In Molecular Repair Hair Mask. popular for fragile postpartum hair because it focuses on bond repair without leaving hair feeling as stiff or hard as heavier protein treatments sometimes can
Satin pillowcase. helps reduce friction while sleeping, which can matter when postpartum hair already feels more fragile or prone to tangling.
What actually helps
Bond repair treatments
If your hair feels weak, stretchy, soft, or fragile, bond repair products can sometimes help support the hair internally.
K18 is one of the most talked-about options because it focuses more on repairing internal damage rather than heavily coating the hair.
Light protein treatments
Protein can help if your hair is breaking into smaller pieces rather than shedding from the root.The main thing I learned postpartum was that more protein is not always better — especially on relaxed hair.
Lower manipulation
Honestly, this probably mattered more than buying products.
Gentler detangling, lower tension styles, less heat, satin bonnets, softer scrunchies, and leaving my hair alone more often helped the most overall.
Final thought
Postpartum shedding is usually temporary, but that doesn’t make it less frustrating while it’s happening.
The biggest thing that helped me was understanding the difference between shedding and breakage — and realising that trying to aggressively “fix” postpartum hair can sometimes make it feel worse.
This isn’t professional advice — just a simple breakdown of what I’ve found helpful.
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FAQs
Are baby rashes common?
Very. A lot of newborns and babies get rashes at some point, especially while their skin is still adjusting to heat, moisture, dribble, nappies, or hormones.
How do I know if a rash is serious?
Most rashes are harmless, but things like a fever, blistering, difficulty breathing, rapidly spreading rash, or baby seeming unusually unwell should be checked urgently. Trust your instincts if something feels off.
Does teething cause rashes?
Teething itself doesn’t usually cause body rashes, but constant dribble can irritate the skin around the mouth, chin, and neck folds. Keeping the area dry can help a lot.
What helps prevent nappy rash?
Frequent nappy changes, letting the area air out when possible, and using a barrier cream usually help. Sometimes certain wipes or nappies can irritate sensitive skin too.
Why does baby acne happen?
Baby acne is really common in the early weeks and is usually linked to hormones. It often looks worse before it improves, but it normally clears on its own over time.